Episode 67 - Grandparenting with Wisdom and Grace with Melissa Heiland

Date: March 14, 2025

Podcast Show Notes: Interview with Melissa Heiland

 

Episode Highlights:

In this heartfelt episode of The Women Behind the Words, Debbie Dufek welcomes Melissa Heiland to discuss the profound role of grandparents and how they can impact their grandchildren’s lives with love, prayer, and wisdom. Melissa shares valuable insights on navigating the joys and challenges of grandparenting while maintaining integrity, respect, and a deep sense of faith.

Melissa emphasizes the importance of honoring parental authority and encouraging grandparents to never undermine their grandchildren's parents or contradict established rules—especially when it comes to sensitive areas like technology use. Respecting these boundaries not only builds trust but also sets a godly example of integrity and honor.

The conversation also explores the delicate balance of sharing faith with grandchildren. Melissa encourages grandparents to naturally weave conversations about Jesus into everyday moments unless explicitly asked not to. The goal is to offer encouragement and hope without pressure, allowing faith to be a gentle and uplifting presence.

Being present—both emotionally and physically—is another key aspect of grandparenting. Melissa encourages clearing schedules when grandchildren visit, being intentional in conversations, and speaking life and purpose into their hearts. She reminds grandparents that their presence is a gift, and their words can shape a legacy of faith and love.

Through these intentional practices, grandparents can create a safe, welcoming place for both their grandchildren and their parents. It’s about building a legacy rooted in faith, integrity, and unconditional love—making an eternal impact for generations to come.

 

About Melissa Heiland:
Melissa Heiland is a wife, mother of six, and grandmother of thirteen. With degrees from Wake Forest University and the University of Central Missouri, her specialties include education and curriculum instruction. Melissa served as a missionary with the International Mission Board and has led mission teams since 2000. She is the Founder and President of Beautiful Feet International, a mission organization that establishes pregnancy centers around the world. Beautiful Feet has over 151 pregnancy ministries in 36 countries.

Melissa is also an author, speaker, and missionary. Her written works include a training manual and curriculum for pregnancy centers, devotionals for new and pregnant mothers, and resources for mission teams. Melissa is the recipient of the 2014 EvanTell Matthew 4:19 award and the 2022 Heartbeat International Servant Leader award. Her passion is equipping others to share the Gospel and advocate for life.

 

Book Spotlights:

A Mother’s Journey: A Devotional for Pregnancy
This 40-week devotional offers comfort and spiritual guidance to expectant mothers. Each chapter includes scripture, a journal prompt, and details about the baby’s development. It encourages women to connect with their children, themselves, and God—offering hope and reminding them that they are not alone in their journey.

A Mother’s Comfort: A Devotional for Baby’s First Year
This 52-week devotional is designed to encourage new mothers as they bond with their babies. Each devotion includes scripture, reflections, and journaling prompts, helping mothers draw closer to God while navigating the joys and challenges of the first year. It serves as a comforting reminder that just as they comfort their child, God is present to comfort and guide them.

 

Connect with Melissa Heiland:
Website: Beautiful Feet International
Email: bfidiroperations@gmail.com
Facebook: Beautiful Feet International
Instagram: @beautifulfeetintl

 

Melissa’s life and ministry are a testament to the beauty of living intentionally for Christ, building legacies of love and faith that extend across generations and around the world.