Episode 102 - Living Loved: Gentle Soul Care, Abiding in Christ, and Finding Healing with Jesus with Tammy Gerhard

Date: March 20, 2026

Podcast Show Notes: Interview with Tammy Gerhard

 

Story Highlights:

In this warm and spirit-filled episode of The Women Behind the Words, host Deb Dufek sits down with Tammy Gerhard, a Christian speaker, author, counselor, chaplain, and small-business owner whose life and ministry are rooted in one simple, powerful truth: that every person is deeply loved by Jesus.

With over twenty-two years of experience as a trauma-informed school counselor and a master's degree in counseling, Tammy brings both professional wisdom and personal vulnerability to this conversation. Whether she is leading a retreat, writing a blog post, or serving a cup of coffee, her mission remains beautifully consistent: guiding people toward soul care so they can learn to live loved by Jesus and love others well.

Tammy opens up about the heart behind Mindful Mondays: Time with Jesus, her weekly interactive blog designed to help people begin each week anchored in Scripture, not through striving or performance, but through gentleness, presence, and relationship. She speaks candidly about why tone matters when sharing God's Word, especially for those who have experienced harsh or conditional presentations of faith. For Tammy, Scripture is not a measuring stick. It is medicine, and it meets people right where they are.

The conversation also explores Tammy's role as founder of Gather for Women, an after-hours community created to foster connection, soul care, and growth among women from diverse backgrounds and denominations. With a heart for unity over comparison, Tammy has built a space where women can share their stories, grow as emerging speakers and leaders, and experience God's love together, not in isolation, but in community.

Tammy also shares the story behind her specialty coffee shop in Connecticut, which has become an unexpected gathering place for interdenominational connection and healing. Through both her physical storefront and her growing online presence, she regularly walks alongside those who have experienced church hurt, gently reminding them that God's love is inclusive, pursuing, and patient, and that it never runs out.

One of the most powerful threads woven throughout this episode is Tammy's exploration of attunement, the calming, regulating presence of God in our lives. Drawing from her counseling background and her personal faith walk, she describes how learning to abide in Christ through humility and surrender has transformed her approach to spiritual growth. True transformation, she reminds us, is not something we manufacture through effort. It is something that happens when we open ourselves to God's presence in the everyday.

Tammy also tenderly honors the legacy of her mentor, Cindy McDowell, whose teachings on spiritual healing and God's love continue to shape her ministry. Inspired by Cindy's unexpected passing, Tammy committed to capturing and sharing those life-giving messages through blogs, recordings, and creative projects, trusting that God would use them to help others hear His voice and experience healing through Scripture.

This episode is a beautiful reminder that healing is rarely loud or rushed. It happens slowly, gently, and in relationship, and that Jesus meets us not with condemnation, but with a love that restores the soul.

 

About Our Guest:

Tammy Gerhard is a Christian speaker, author, counselor, and coach with a deep desire to help people experience the love of Jesus in practical and life-giving ways. She holds an MA in Counseling and has spent more than twenty-two years serving as a school counselor with a trauma-informed focus. As a licensed and ordained chaplain, she walks alongside individuals in seasons of challenge, healing, and growth. Tammy is also the founder of Gather for Women and the owner of a specialty coffee shop in Connecticut. In every area of her ministry and work, her passion remains the same: guiding others toward soul care so they can learn to live loved by Jesus and love others well.

 

Book Spotlight:

Cocoa Hugs and Coffee Mugs and I Love My Community: A Kids Activity Book

These warm and engaging children's books from Tammy Gerhard are more than just a fun read. They are gentle guides that help young hearts navigate the world around them with kindness and courage. Through simple, relatable stories, kids learn to identify and understand their emotions, build meaningful friendships, and discover the incredible power that small acts of kindness have to create stronger, more caring communities. Written with empathy at the center, these books plant seeds of compassion early and give children a language for love that will stay with them for years to come. Perfect for home, classrooms, and community settings, they are an ideal gift for any child ready to learn what it means to truly care for others.

Soul Care for All Ages (Coming Soon)

Tammy's upcoming book, Soul Care for All Ages, invites readers of every season of life into simple, sustainable spiritual rhythms designed to help them remain close to Jesus so that His life and love can grow within them and flow naturally into the world around them. Rooted in the same message that shapes her Mindful Mondays blog and the retreats she leads, this book offers practical, accessible ways to nurture the soul and live loved in the everyday. Whether you are just beginning your faith journey or looking to go deeper, Soul Care for All Ages will meet you right where you are.

 

Connect with Tammy:

Instagram: @tammygerhard and @tammygerharauthor

Facebook: @tammygerhard and @tammygerhard-author

All Links: linktr.ee/tammygerhard

 

Closing Thought:

Tammy's story reminds us that the most powerful ministry often happens in the quietest moments, over a warm cup of coffee, in the pages of a weekly blog, or in a room full of women choosing community over competition. God does not wait until we have it all together. He meets us in the middle of our mess, our doubt, and our healing, and He calls it all holy.